Monday, September 30, 2013

Finally, Arrival! ::or:: “Welcome to the land of the foreign baby admiration club”


So, it’s better to be a few weeks late than never. I’m finally getting around to writing this post.  We arrived in China a few weeks ago and passed through Beijing to giving me a chance to meet some people as well as to let us play tourist.

My first impression of Beijing was that it’s just huge.  Our first full day in Beijing we had the chance to go see Tiananmen and the Forbidden City. We didn’t know it at the time, but we had the perfect day for sightseeing.  The air pollution was low that day and the sky was blue as can be.

The Forbidden City really brought about the magnitude of China to me in multiple ways. First, it has a remarkable history that stretches back in time. Second, the space it occupies is just ginormous, as can be seen in some of these pictures. But what truly impressed me was the ability of what amounts to tens of thousands of tourists to pass through its gates on an hourly basis on a random Tuesday in September. I thought we were crazy initially when crossing the bridge into the City shoulder to shoulder with Chinese admirers in a steady march all snapping pictures of the portrait of Mao.  And then it opened up into football fields of space that even the endless stream of tourists couldn’t fill.

We also had the chance to travel up to the Great Wall with a good friend from my months of Mandarin training. Even an hour outside of the city, the winds had changed from the day before and the pollution was noticeable.  Word of advice to anyone going to the Great Wall: get there early – as in when it opens up in the morning. We enjoyed having the wall largely to ourselves and some other early-bird hikers. Heck, we even got there before the nick-knack sellers showed up. It was quite the shock coming down off the cable car that connects the lower town parking area to the wall. What had been a clear, albeit, steep path was now wall-to-wall salespeople pleading with us to buy their wares.

By the time our plane took off the following day, the pollution in the city was so bad we couldn’t see across the tarmac at the airport and the plane was delayed taking off, we were told, because they were trying to find an acceptable runway. In the three weeks since arriving, the conditions in Guangzhou haven’t even come close to what we experienced our second day in Beijing. We feel quite lucky.

In retrospect, there was one more thing that stands out from our first few days in China. The people in Beijing were completely enamored with NJ. Now, it must be known that NJ is a beautiful baby boy (I’m not biased at all). He also has the knack for connecting with people. He knows just the right moment to smile at a stranger, to wave at a random burly man, or giggle at an old lady. Our pediatrician said it was like he is always flirting. I think it’s related to the fact he perpetually seems as if on the cusp of a broad, warm smile.

But his outgoing personality doesn’t explain the near constant attention he garnered whilst in Beijing. People smiled and waved. Some self-aware people tried to covertly snap cellphone pictures so we wouldn’t notice. Others simply stopped stared and then whipped out their cellphone to get the shot. Armed guards broke their strict stance to smile and wave. If we stood still too long, parents brought their children – regardless of age – up for a posed picture with NJ. Brazen women both young and old tried to take him from his stroller or from our arms (note: this never felt threatening, but it was awkward). I’m not sure what it was about Beijing, but we have not experienced the same level of NJ admiration in Guangzhou. It’s closer to the same level we got back in Washington.

Finally, a housekeeping note: Honestly keeping this blog up might be a bit more difficult than we’d expected. It’s not because of lack of writing, although I need to get into a regular habit of writing (and so does RR). It has more to do with spotty Internet we’ve faced, something I didn’t expect to be as big of a problem as it’s turned out to be. Stay tuned – there’ll be a few more posts over the next few days at least.

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Everything has a beginning...

Everything has a beginning and this is the start of a new chapter in our life. I am a U.S. Foreign Service Officer on the cusp of heading out to my first assignment to Guangzhou, China. Accompanying me are my wife, known here as RR, and my nearly one year old son, known here on the blog as NJ. The hope is that RR will join me here in chronicling the next few years or more... 

 I've had blogs in the past and understand the work that sometimes goes into keeping them up. But I also know how much I appreciate reading through old passages, looking at pictures, and seeing just how life changes. My personal hope is that both RR and I can create a space where we get to share our experiences, thoughts, and those parts of life that make it all worthwhile. 

But for this post, I just want to focus on a brief introduction and the excitement I feel as we are nearly ready to start this new life. It's been a long journey to get here, much longer in many ways than I ever anticipated. I've known for over half my life that I wanted to do some sort of international work. I just didn't know what type of work. This has led me to wander a bit and create a bit of an eclectic background. But it's one that I've enjoyed for the most part and one that has allowed me to become the person I am today. 

So watch this space. Hopefully over the next few days I (and maybe RR) will start to share what's going on as we get ready to leave, give a bit more background on our lives, and fill in a bit of the nooks and crannies of this blog.